Creative Date Night Ideas: What To Do & How to Have a Creative Date Night
What is a "creative date night?" If you're anything like Aron & I, sometimes you get bored. It's not that you don't love and adore each other, but sometimes, you feel like you've talked about everything; sometimes, you feel like you know everything about each other; sometimes, you stress about coming up with a creative date night, that you get too overwhelmed and just resort to Netflix.
You are normal! It's hard coming up with stimulating things to do together. Especially if you've been together for a long time!
Aron and I have been a couple since 2009 (learn more about our story). We can get complacent in our weekly date nights to the same restaurants. Sometimes we zone out in front of the TV or get immersed in our iPhones. Sometimes, we get so busy that time and energy seem to get the best of us and everyday can feel exactly the same.
Well... Clearly, we created The Modern Love Box to support couples nationally in their search for relationship enhancement and a cure for modern relationship boredom. We are passionate about our connection and try our best to consistently date, flirt and connect as often as possible. We have to consistently invest in our relationships!
Here are some of our favorite and most creative date night ideas to help you spice up the romance, bump up your creative date night and boost your quality time!
Creative Date Night #1 : Dance Party!
One of our favorite things to do is make craft cocktails and have a dance party in the living room. Sounds silly, but it's actually pretty fun. Get together and look up some craft cocktail recipes or research some good wine. Pick a night that works for both of you and put "Dance Party" on your calendars. On the night of your party, make cocktails together and take turns picking/playing your favorite songs together. Dance the night away! Be silly, be playful, be romantic.
Creative Date Night #2 : Adventure Walk
Sometimes getting out of your comfort zone and normal routine is really all we need to feel re-energized and excited. For this creative date, you'll be exploring a neighborhood that you don't know much about; one that you don't often go to. Whether you stumble upon it or research it, truck up to a neighborhood and start exploring. Once, Aron & I planned a jog in a random neighborhood. We literally laced up our shoes and drove to a neighborhood we had never been to. It had an amazing path and the scenery was new and fresh. We talked, we laughed, we even ran longer than usual. Afterward, we found a brewery and had a fresh beer!
Creative Date Night #3 : Sexy Scavenger Hunt
As a fun surprise, take each other to a sexy shop and once you get there, go your separate ways. Give each other a budget and find some goodies for the evening to come. One you get home, take turns hiding your goodies all around the house with a little sexy riddle, a memory, a flirtatious compliment, and/or a sexy request. Here's a perk... at each hidden location, you have to use your sexy goody!
Creative Date Night #4 : Naked Glow in the Dark Hide & Seek
I used to love hide and seek.. still do actually. I often find myself hiding in random places only to scare Aron just for a good laugh...(I'm horrible, I know). Anyway, with this creative date night you can merge the playful fun of hide and seek with a sexy spin! Go to the dollar store and get a bunch of glow in the dark necklaces and bracelets. Go back home, turn off all the lights and dress down to only your birthday suit. Put on the glow in the dark jewelry and take turns hiding and seeking! If this isn't a creative date night, we don't know what is!?
Creative Date Night #5: Sip & Paint Portraits
One night Aron & I went to a craft store and bought some inexpensive canvases and paint. We came home, poured ourselves a glass of wine and decorated the living room with lights and candles. We put some music on and set up our canvases to face each other. Together, we sipped on our paint, talked and did our best attempt at painting each other's portraits.
TOO FUN. We are no Picasso, but we had a blast. (This is similar to our Creative Expression Box!)
Creative Date Night #6 : Exotic Dinner
Research an exotic market place near you (example: Asian Grocery Store, Indian Market, etc). Then, research an exotic recipe for dinner and head to the market to find your appropriate ingredients. Head back home, find a Pandora Music station that fits your theme and make your exotic dinner together as a creative date night! Who says you have to go on a fancy vacation to experience culture and enjoy yummy food? Ugh.. Creative date night? I'd say so!
Creative Date Night #7 : Bookstore Expert
Find a fun bookstore-- used, fancy, whatever you enjoy. Take an hour to separate and get lost in whatever interests you. After your hour is up, come back together, get some coffee and share with each other your expert knowledge on whatever subject you just spent the last hour learning about. Your partner may find your new expert intelligence pretty hot....
Hope these ideas inspire you both and are helpful when thinking about a creative date night. Feel free to leave comments, suggestions and/or other ideas! For more inspiration check out The Modern Love Box subscription or Shop!